Hi there @Eluna32
I figured I’d throw my unsolicited thoughts your way to see if it helps you at all 
Also, please note, I have not used Black v5 specifically, but I have been printing for resin for quite a while and the majority of formlabs resins behave the same in terms of post-processing.
I have moved away from washing with anything else except IPA and it simply seems to be the best for not only formlabs resins, but all 3D printing resins in general. A few things stand out to me with the symptoms you’re describing:
The soft and easily scratched issue
-I have noticed with all “green” resins they must be handled with care, dropping them, scratching them, washing them with with other parts etc, can lead to scratched and dents. In fact, I’ve had a waffled pattern show up from a wash basket on some of the parts I’ve printed with the Tough series of resins by letting them dry IN the wash basket.
-This can go hand in hand with parts being easily scratched even AFTER curing for up to 24 hours. I let cured parts generally “rest” after curing overnight. I have not found a 3D printing resin that won’t, to some extent, be able to be scratched with a fingernail and leave a visible mark.
Show white residue/flaking when scratched or flexed
This sort of goes along with the points I mentioned above - whiteness or flaking when flexed pre-cure is not uncommon. Again, we’ll want to ensure we’re taking care when handling the parts. Post cure, I don’t believe Black v5 is as flexible as the Tough series, but you can absolutely get white stress marks from bending it where it’s not designed to bend. My understand is it’s more designed for rigid parts which are not designed to flex under stress. It’s more along the lines of a standard resin.
Sometimes become brittle if cured longer
Overcuring is 100% a thing and brittleness is a big sign of overcured resin. I recommend sticking with the formalbs recommended settings for this resin.
Occasionally have a “snowflake” or chalky appearance
This can be a sign your wash solution is saturated and needs to be changed out. In most situations, you’ll notice white “dust” collecting in areas with low wash solution flow such as cavities, depressions in the part etc. Undissolved resin will basically coat your part and it can be quite ugly.
Here is my workflow for formlabs resin printed parts:
- Remove parts from the build plate. (I have a flexi release plate is amazing and I highly recommend one if you don’t have one!)
- Parts go into an ultrasonic washing machine with IPA. (I have ventilation set up for this and there are HUGE debates online about whether or not you should use IPA in an ultrasonic. I’m not going to debate those points here)
- Parts are removed from ultrasonic, dried with compressed air and inspected. If parts are satisfactory, they are de-supported and go right into a secondary clean IPA wash.
- Parts are usually washed for 15-20 minutes
- Parts are removed from clean IPA wash and once again dried with an air compressor
- Parts are left to air dry anywhere from 5 to 12 hours
- Parts are inspected again and cured in the FormCure as per settings on the FormCure
- Parts are removed from FormCure and inspected for warping and left to “rest” overnight
I know there is a lot of information in this post, so feel free to tag me if you have any questions and I’d love to help out where I can!
Edit - I never use water to wash parts. Unless the resin is stated to be water-washable, I would not use water to even rinse off IPA. Not sure about wash solution, but I would imagine it’s along the same lines. Air drying is the way!